Get Ready for Love!

Stop wasting your precious time, money, and heart on what's not working. Let's get you to your love now!

This Toolbox:

We all learn differently, so I created this toolbox with a variety of ways to explore the material. Feel free to use whatever format works best for you.

If you learn best by listening, you can skip the videos and simply download the audio recordings.

If you're a visual learner, watch the videos. Seeing the concepts illustrated can help them stick.

A quick note: You may hear references to personal coaching, a Q&A column, or private Facebook groups. Those resources are no longer available.

The relationship tools themselves, however, are just as relevant today as when I created them.

And if you happen to need a Realtor in Northern California... well, that part of my life is very much still active.

Session #1.

Ready for Love

  • How to be a happy, single person in great spiritual shape while dating

  • What happens when you get on a roll in your dating life

  • Why you need a dating buddy and who you might pick

Session #2.

Ready for Love

This short segment offers a technique that will…

  • Repair your heart so you can be healthy, happy, and ready for your love

  • This technique has been adapted to serve you. The original source is from the nonviolent communication people

Session #3.

Ready for Love

  • Where to find your love in the “real world”

  • Why no one looks at us or talk to us when we’re out

  • What to do to be more approachable (and still be yourself)

Session #4.

Ready for Love

  • How you can be the best first date — ever (and it’s effortless)

  • How to get the information you need without “the interview”

  • What to say & not say to set a nice tone for your date(s)

Session #5.

Ready for Love

  • What to pay attention to beyond “is he cute?”

  • Pass or give another chance? You’ll know what to do.

  • Gracefully handling paying for dates

Session #6.

Ready for Love

  • When is the right time to have sex for the first time

  • How to have sex conversations and talk about anything sexual

  • Friends with Benefits

Session #7.

Ready for Love

  • Online & app dating from a man’s point of view

  • Photo best practices

  • Writing your profile to make it unique

Session #8.

Ready for Love

  • What men say about being rejected

  • 3 simple lines to say, “nope, no second date for you”

  • What to say when he’s moving too fast

Session #9.

Ready for Love

  • How to set boundaries and catch them when they get crossed

  • How to be your fully expressed badass self and not be intimidating

  • The newly divorced guy: Total nightmare or best-kept secret?

Session #10.

Ready for Love

  • How to get a commitment once you’re dating

  • What to pay attention to when you’re moving from “casual” to “committed”

  • Creating a relationship worth having